To me, New Years means…journals. There is just something about starting off the new year with empty, pristine pages in a brand new journal that speaks to the endless possibilities of the year ahead. Until I put pen to paper, anything...
2024-12-23 17:00:02 +0000 UTC View PostDecember's Class, "Changing Perspectives in Power Exchange" w/Tart Barbie, is available in the store!
Many of the more common rules and protocols in power exchange exist because of tradition. What do you do if tradition for tradition's sake ...
2024-12-19 17:41:40 +0000 UTC View PostIt’s the gift giving season and ads are all about buying things to give to the people you love. These ads actually kind of bring me down even when logically I understand they’re just marketing to push people to spend money. The nar...
2024-12-02 17:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post
Many of the more common rules and protocols in power exchange exist because of tradition. What do you do if tradition for tradition's sake just doesn't resonate with you? Instead of struggling to accept something that doesn't make sense for you, l...
2024-11-25 17:13:25 +0000 UTC View PostNovember's Class, "Handling Trauma in Authority-Based Relationships" w/ Sir Quill and His Mercy, is available for download in the store!
Past traumas can have a profound effect on authority-based relationships. Triggers can arise at any tim...
By RedWarrior
Dating is tough, but mixing in Domination and submission and kink into the mix can make things even more complicated. You’ve been on some dates with someone and it’s looking good. The attraction and chemistry i...
By RedWarrior
Twue submission comes only from a certain region of BDSMtopia. All other submission is really just sparkling codependency!
Ok, I’m mostly just kidding there, but this writing is probably going to step o...
2024-10-21 17:00:08 +0000 UTC View PostThe Dominant role in a dynamic is usually perceived as one who is put together, confident, and social. However, many people on the left side of the slash suffer from mental health conditions that make fitting this perception difficult. Leading a d...
2024-10-21 13:58:23 +0000 UTC View Post"Moments That Matter" with Beast & Echo is available for download through SADE's online store!
Sometimes, everything comes together just right to create a perfect moment, one that shapes our life, provides direction and meaning, o...
2024-09-18 00:17:08 +0000 UTC View PostBy RedWarrior
Matching energy is a term that’s being used in dating circles to basically describe putting as much time and care into a relationship as the other person is giving. Early on in dating this might mean restricting ...
2024-09-03 15:00:04 +0000 UTC View PostBy RedWarrior
In an ideal world, we would all find the partners who were into exactly the kind of things we are into, at the exact same level. Unfortunately, especially when it comes to power exchange, it can be really challengi...
2024-08-27 15:08:34 +0000 UTC View Post
Sometimes, everything comes together just right to create a perfect moment, one that shapes our life, provides direction and meaning, or cements a lasting memory. Many of us spend much of our lives chasing those moments. Imagine being able to inte...
2024-08-24 16:27:42 +0000 UTC View Post"Feeding a Dynamic Through Service, Training, and Appreciation" with Sir Tee and little kitsune is available for download through SADE's online store!
This class explores how we can fully access the benefits and potential, the giving or rec...
This class explores how we can fully access the benefits and potential, the giving or receiving service, can create for a Dynamic. Service has the potential to not only bring joy, but it can also help to strengthen, sustain, and feed the dynamic. ...
2024-08-06 00:40:51 +0000 UTC View PostIf you missed July's class on the 16th, here is where you can view it whenever you want!
You can watch the class for a one-time fee of $20; paid members watch free as part of their membership!
"Power permeates our every interpersonal...
"Conscious Inequality, Dominance, and Submission" livestreaming on Tuesday, July 16th at 8pm CDT. Reserve your spot at https://www.crowdcast.io/c/23z5oblodf3n
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In this video, Lee Harrington talks about what inspired their upcoming class, "Conscious Inequality, Dominance, and Submission".
Watch the full interview at 2024-07-13 18:47:24 +0000 UTC
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2024-07-12 16:48:50 +0000 UTC View PostWatch the full interview at https://www.patre...
2024-07-11 16:58:02 +0000 UTC View PostWe sit down to talk with Lee Harrington about their upcoming class "Conscious Inequality, Domination, and Submission"! Lee explains that we all experience power differential relationships in our every day life in ways we may not be aware of. We al...
2024-07-08 15:02:53 +0000 UTC View PostBy RedWarrior
Disclaimer - This is all, 100 percent my views and perspective when I’m single. Do as you will in your own life and relationships.
I sometimes struggle with labels when I’m single. Am I still a sla...
2024-07-02 22:14:54 +0000 UTC View Post
Live at https://crowdcast.io/c/23z5oblodf3n for all SADE Patreons
2024-06-15 21:53:38 +0000 UTC View Post
Power permeates our every interpersonal interaction, from how we interact with the grocery clerk to our kink in the bedroom, and there is a difference betwe...
2024-06-15 21:48:22 +0000 UTC View PostMeet our next presenters, 2022 Midwest Power Exchange titleholders BlkDiamond and HisAmira! We talk about their upcoming class, "Progressive Gor for the 21st Century", their Total Power Exchange dynamic and what that looks like in public, and many...
2024-06-15 21:36:59 +0000 UTC View PostOur upcoming presenters BlkDiamond and HisAmira talk about how they navigate their High Protocol Power Exchange Dynamic in public spaces.
2024-06-15 21:08:01 +0000 UTC View PostBy RedWarrior
A lot of Dominants and Masters or Mistresses can have all the mojo in the world and talk a good game, but when it comes to assessing a potential D or M type for more than just casual pickup play, the devil, as t...
2024-06-15 21:05:34 +0000 UTC View PostOur upcoming presenters BlkDiamond and HisAmira tell us about how they developed a progressive form of Gorean power exchange dynamic.
2024-06-15 21:01:18 +0000 UTC View PostBy RedWarrior
For most of my kink life, I’ve never understood D/s, let alone part-time D/s. I’ve very much been an all-or-nothing, off or on kind of person when it came to BDSM. I had 2 long term M/s relationships and bar...
2024-06-15 20:58:42 +0000 UTC View PostSADE interviews their latest presenter Stormy! We talk about how they began their journey in kink, how they became an educator, and preview their class "We've Got the Dynamic, Now What?"
2024-06-15 20:56:04 +0000 UTC View Post