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Coming up next in this mini series on taking small steps toward big changes, let's talk about the Where and Who of it all.
Do we know who all might be impacted by these changes? What ripple effect might it have on...
2023-08-20 12:00:44 +0000 UTC View Post
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Today, I'm continuing my series on taking small steps toward big changes. This week, I explore the logistical but also sometimes emotional When of it all. What is the timeline for making a change? What is a comfortable p...
2023-08-13 10:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning! ☀️
Today, I'm continuing my series on taking small steps toward big changes. This week, I offer some prompts and considerations for the Why of it all. What are our motives? What are all the internal and external pressure po...
2023-08-06 10:15:39 +0000 UTC View Post
Hello and happy Sunday, I hope you're having a lovely day. ☀️
I'm starting a series on taking small steps toward big changes. It's an often requested topic that always felt daunting to try to cover in one or two videos. So I'm spacing it...
2023-07-30 13:22:47 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning and happy Sunday, I hope you're having a beautiful day and a beautiful weekend.
Today, by request, let’s explore potential ripple effects of breakups. Since we usually have mutual connections with our ex, how does the split im...
2023-07-23 11:54:35 +0000 UTC View Post
Here's the video and transcript from yesterday's Live Chat! The next one will be some time mid/late autumn, I hope to see you there again.
Chapters:
I hope you're having a nice weekend (and if not, I do hope you have a person or people around to lean on).
Recently, a penpal suggested he could interview me from a patron's point of view, so I said, "sure, why not!" During the chat, we disc...
2023-07-09 13:07:21 +0000 UTC View Post
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I hope you're having a beautiful day and a lovely weekend. This past week, I made a ~60 second public video on compassion fatigue, and a lot of people said they relate. So, I made a longer video to explore the topic a bit deepe...
2023-07-02 10:59:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi! I hope you're having a lovely Sunday and a great weekend.
A lot of people ask for more podcast recommendations, but the space is surprisingly limited when it comes to non-monogamy. You might enjoy this three-season podcast ...
2023-06-25 10:29:59 +0000 UTC View Post
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Today's video is patron-requested, which always makes me happy. I want to create resources that apply to your current situations, to the best of my ability.
Let's dig in a bit about how we talk to our closest relationship...
2023-06-18 10:00:06 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning!
I hope that your weekend is going great. And if it’s not, I hope you’re still able to find a few bright spots of relaxation wherever you can.
Let’s talk about green flags today. This could be with newer people, when...
2023-06-11 10:09:33 +0000 UTC View Post
Hello and happy Sunday, I hope you're having a beautiful day and a beautiful weekend. ☀️
Some weeks back, after the case study I posted on learning to say no, there were a few requests that I share some lower stakes examples, especially ...
2023-06-04 13:05:22 +0000 UTC View Post
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I hope you're having a lovely weekend. Today, I'm answering a question that I get kind of a lot: “when does it get easier? I'm having a hard time, when do I stop struggling so much?” It's a broad question, but I will do my ...
2023-05-28 10:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
Here's the video and transcript from yesterday's Live Chat! The next one will be some time mid/late summer, I hope to see you there again.
Chapters:
00.00 Intro
00.52 How to mindfully separate from a distrustful par...
Hi and happy international Mother's Day (if that's a thing you celebrate, or are)!
Being child-free myself, most of the polyam parenting resources I share will come from other people. (I can especially recommend 2023-05-14 09:55:44 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning, and I hope you're having a lovely weekend!
So, lots of people ask me to make sex education videos but I'm unfortunately not a sex educator. However, I can definitely speak to the volatile range of emotions and stressors that co...
2023-05-07 10:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
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Lots of folks have asked me to share more about detachment, codependency, and finding solid boundaries with people you love. And absolutely, I've got you.
Today, I'll share a case study of one significant relationship in ...
2023-04-30 08:27:31 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning!
I hope you’re having a lovely weekend. Today’s resource will be a questionnaire, which I hope may be of service.
I’m often asked how to set boundaries in long distance relationships. That’s a big topic. Since ther...
2023-04-23 01:54:12 +0000 UTC View Post
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Today, we'll continue exploring scarcity, specifically with renewable resources like energy or sexual desire. What is and isn't within our control? What plays into our fears, and how do we talk about it?
I'll share how I ...
2023-04-16 10:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning and happy Easter, if you celebrate!
Today's chat will be about scarcity, specifically with finite resources like time or money. What do we do when there's not enough to go around? How do we know when asymmetry is hierarchy in di...
2023-04-09 10:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
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If you'll be attending my workshop later today with @polyphiliablog, I look forward to seeing you there! And if you can't make it but are still interested, the recording will be on 2023-04-02 09:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Here's the video and transcript from yesterday's Live Chat! The next one will be some time in May, I hope to see you there again.
Chapters:
Good morning!
I hope you’re having a lovely weekend. Today’s resource is text only, as I think it’s a better format for this kind of exercise.
A common question I get is, “how do we know when it’s time to move on from...
2023-03-12 12:14:58 +0000 UTC View Post
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I've been hearing some stress lately in solo polyamorous people who feel frustrated by the (perceived) binary of independence vs. interdependence.
Sometimes total autonomy in housing or finance or child rearing isn’t po...
2023-03-05 09:04:37 +0000 UTC View Post
Hope you're having a lovely Sunday!
Quite a few monogamous folks have asked me to touch on mono / polyam dynamics, where a monogamous person is in a romantic or interdependent relationship with a polyamorous person. So, let's talk about it!<...
2023-02-26 13:17:29 +0000 UTC View Post
So, my microphone was turned off. 🙈 We're using the onboard camera mic today. I cleaned it up best I could, but I'll have the transcript enclosed here too, in case you'd rather read it.
Anyway hi! Do you have any "casual"...
2023-02-19 14:58:25 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning!
Today, I'll share a curated set of non-monogamous voices on Medium called Polyamory Today. It amounts to essentially a magazine, via the Medium platform...
2023-02-12 11:25:07 +0000 UTC View Post
Here's the video and transcript from yesterday's Live Chat! The next one will be around the end of March, I hope to see you there again.
Chapters:
Hi cutie!
Quick note that my next Patron LIVE Chat will be Sunday, February 5 at 11AM PDT / 2PM EST / 8PM Berlin. If you can't come, please DM me your questions ahead of time. I will send out the meeting link that sa...
2023-01-29 14:47:24 +0000 UTC View Post
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Today, I'll explore in-depth what an effective apology can look like, based on my own experience and dating examples. (Content Warning from 12:19 - 16:02, I refer to some trauma relate...
2023-01-22 13:14:01 +0000 UTC View Post